I admire your courage and resolve! I too am gaining but at slower rate. I have not confided to my wife that I'm deliberately gaining, but it is obvious that I'm putting on weight. She has become a subtle encourager asking "do you want seconds?" etc. My wife is a BBW. I have noticed though that she hasn't been as watchful of her weight, as in the past. Which is great. Good luck, and stay hungry my friend.
9 years